Friday, December 6, 2013

So close!

As of 1:10 this afternoon, my classes for this semester are officially over. Can I get a "HOORAH!!!!!!!"?

Yes. Yes I can.

Last three papers for the semester! Well, minus the final paper. #buzzkill


I have one final next week for my 17th century British poetry class, but otherwise, I am done! Which means I am that much closer to starting my final semester of this degree! Yeehaw! I will continue interning for Aurora Regency through the end of the year, and then next semester I start a new internship with Musa Publishing. I will be taking one less class than I am this semester, and I am super excited about that. Both classes are electives, but my elective class this semester was much harder than my other two major classes- so, we'll see what that means.

Meanwhile, I have the horses to keep me busy and the icy weather to make me question my choices in sports. Anyone want to build me a 3-stall barn off the back of my house? Preferably one with an indoor arena and round pen? We might have to move the house to make this possible.


Tuesday, November 26, 2013

It's the most wonderful time of the year... almost!

If I've harped on anything this year, it's how busy this semester has been. Taking 9 hours of classes, 3 hours of internship, working full time, and owning 3 horses is enough to stretch anyone's days... but, I've never been one to do things the easy way, so to top it off, I thought I might as well go for the gold and get a boyfriend too.

It's funny how things like that work out.

We've been dating for almost 2 months now. He lives in Dallas, which unfortunately makes this a long distance relationship, but he has been really good about staying in touch with me. We talk every night, we text off and on during the day, and he has driven down many a weekend to hang out with me. I finally get to reciprocate in a few weeks when I go up to Dallas for his office's Christmas party. It's just so much harder to travel when you have 2 dogs, 1 cat, and, of course, those horses, especially when you and your roommate are the sole care takers for the horses. If I could board them, traveling more would be a breeze!

He has no pets, but he likes my guys- and the inside three at least seem to feel the same way about him. Fiona would not stop licking him, Romeo loves everyone, and Ramses jumped into his lap- only to walk across him and climb into my lap and lie down, thereby sending the message that I already had a man in my life. So maybe the jury's out on Ramses. Chica was her usual unimpressed self, and Rosa was still so new when he visited that she didn't care what was going on as long as she got to eat.

So life is hectic right now, but I'm trying to not miss out on my favorite time of the year. In two weeks I should be done with classes, so I'm looking forward to that (minus the 2 research papers lying between me and the end). And then Christmas time! One and a half weeks off! Time for riding and relaxing and reading, my favorite r-words!

Come on, motivation. Just have to get through these next couple of weeks... how about a couple of dog pics to get through?

Pup pup likes to snuggle

"Better than the queen's corgis" according to a native Briton

All about comfort

Meanwhile... at the office...

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

My Heart Belongs To...?

While it is true that my heart will always and forever belong to Chica, there have been many other horses that can claim ownership to bits and pieces of it. One of those I randomly had a dream about last night. His name was Reyolena, and he was the colt I trained for an undergrad colt training class.

First week with Reyolena

While I wasn't overly excited about the bay gelding when I first saw him, he turned out to be the best horse for me in the class. He was smart, he wasn't overly babyish/flighty, and he was a really good ride. I'd say he and the filly that my TA rode turned out to be the best in the class- and I don't say that out of vanity or out of some mistaken belief that I was the best trainer. He was just so intelligent and easy to work with that it made my job easy.

From longing him, to driving him, to finally getting on and riding- with only a little bucking to start off with- I learned so much that I have since used when breaking other horses. He was a great teacher.

Longing

 A few of my "favorite" moments with Reyolena:

*that day it was storming and we got all 15-20 of us out in the covered arena, longing our 2 year old horses, while it thundered loudly (every time it thundered, Reyolena would gallop around me faster and faster, neighing to the other horses)

*the time we were loping along and he tripped, falling down onto his front end with his nose in the dirt and almost sending me flying off over his head. I consciously thought "If I fall off now and land in the dirt, I'm going to be filthy for work since I don't have time to go home and shower" and decided then and there that I was staying on, leaned back with all of my might, and hauled up on his face, righting him back on his feet.

*the time one guy's horse, Cooder, got loose in the arena and took off running for a cluster of horses and kids, only to turn at the last minute and come straight at Reyolena and I. I was standing next to Reyolena when Cooder hit him, knocking Reyolena into me and tossing me to the ground, which caused me to lose my hold on Reyolena. He took off and ran with the other horse until we could catch them. My TA came up and accusingly asked me what I had done, because he was an idiot.

Some of my actual favorite things about Reyolena:

*getting to work with him during holiday breaks, just to spend more time with him

*how much he loved the way my hair smelled and would always bury his nose against my head

*teaching him to drink out of a water fountain

*the bond he and I shared, even though I tried SO HARD not to get attached to him

Obsessed with my hair

Yep. In the end, I tried so hard to figure out how I could afford to buy him and keep two horses. There was no way at the time, and in the end I had to tell him goodbye and hope for the best for his future. I have no idea what happened to him, and my dream was a reflection of that- in it, I stumbled upon him and was happy to see he was still around. That's the hardest thing about training horses, to me. Some come along and you work with them and send them on their way, happy for the experience (and even happier to see them go). Some, however, make their way into your heart, in spite of your best efforts to keep them at arm's length. I'm looking at you, Reyolena, Chico, Annie, Ernie, Cherry, Topper, and Remington.

Monday, November 11, 2013

A week in the Big Apple

After several years of planning (and having plans fall through), I finally got to travel up to New York City last week. It was a blast! And I have never been so exhausted from walking around.

All of my pictures are on my phone, meaning that I have no idea if or when I'll upload them to a computer. But here are a few to start with!

Monday I arrived and used the UBER private car service, which I highly recommend, to get to Jess' house in Brooklyn from LaGuardia. Shortly after I arrived and dropped off my bags, Patricia, Grace and I went into Manhattan to see the 9/11 memorial, which is incredible and very moving. Afterwards, we walked around a little while, waiting on Jess to get off work so we could meet up with her for dinner (at the BEST Italian restaurant I've ever been to, Pepe Giallo). We stumbled upon these lighted trees across from the memorial:


Tuesday, we took the subway back into Manhattan with Jess on her way to work, stopped and ate delicious NYC bagels with way too much (aka a perfect amount) of cream cheese, and then headed into Central Park. The leaves are changing right now, which means that CP is absolutely gorgeous and definitely my favorite place in the whole city. It is such a nice change of pace from the GO GO GO feel of NYC. Definitely more my speed.


We went to the Rockefeller Center afterwards to go ice skating, which was a lesson in humility. I never actually fell, but there were a couple of close calls. Also I realized that I'm not my teenage self anymore that can skate for hours and never want to stop. There was a lot of stopping. And groaning. And clutching my leg that insisted on bending at an awkward angle every time I went around a curve.



After ice skating, we walked around the area for a while, checking out the New York Public Library and Grand Central Station, both of which are beautiful buildings. Later, after an unexpected subway ride to 125th street (almost into the Bronx) where we learned the difference between an express and a local train, we met up with my friend Molly, who attends school in Manhattan, and her dog Murphy. It's funny how many people stop and ask someone who has a dog for directions. Afterwards, Patricia, Jess and I met up at the Russian Vodka Room for martinis, which, let's just say, made friends out of everyone in the bar.

Wednesday, we went back to the bagel place near Jess' work, then went to check out the Empire State building. We went all the way to the top, where we peered over the city like forgotten birds, a trip that was expedited by Jess' landlord working in the building and offering to get us a) discounted tickets and b) to the front of the line.



After the ESB, we went to the Macy's on 5th avenue for lunch, then made our way to Broadway for what I was most excited about: The Phantom of the Opera. It was SO wonderful and so worth the money. I loved it so much that I would have stayed for the next showing if I could have. It was definitely a dream come true and the best part of the whole trip, in my opinion.

After Phantom, we walked through Times Square, a place that you won't really believe until you're there- the screens were so bright that it was like day- just for the experience. There were people trying to get into the Guinness Book of World Records, there were people constantly hassling us about a comedy club, and we saw Batman and Spiderman walk by. We then made our way back to Jess' work so that we could get dinner somewhere before going to a local bar to hear her friend sing during open mic night.

The restaurant we ended up at, Trattoria Spaghetto, was awesome. We had been standing outside, reading the menu, when the owner came out, trying to get us to come in. We hedged, because we weren't sure how much time we had to eat, but we finally decided to go in, and he treated us like royalty. He kept our glasses full at all times, brought us an appetizer on the house, helped me with my coat, and brought us after dinner drinks again on the house, all while speaking with his delightful Italian accent. He definitely earned my business again if I'm ever back over there.

Thursday, my final day, we headed to the Staten Island ferry to see the statue of liberty. It was cold on the boat, but it was nice to be able to sit down. We passed fairly close to the statue and were able to get lots of pictures. While waiting on Staten Island for the return ferry, we met a woman who had been on the same ferry the day the planes hit the twin towers. She told us all about her perspective, and I really enjoyed listening to her. She, like the majority of the people I met while in NYC, was very kind and excited for our trip to the city and had lots of suggestions for things to do. Based on my own experience I don't know where the "rude New Yorkers" stereotype comes from- certainly most people are in a hurry there and might be brusque, but to this Texan, they were perfectly civil. One lady even went out of her way to help us when she overheard us wondering where something was.

Like I said in opening, I was so exhausted from my vacation- NYC walking is quite different than regular walking! By the end of the second day my feet hurt so badly that I would have paid someone to let me just sit down on the street. And the constant climbing/descending the subway stairs took a huge toll on my knee so that I was limping (in a quick fashion) everywhere. But I powered through, and I'm glad for the experiences I had. The city is a cool place, although not somewhere I could ever live!

Oh, and I had a run-in with the NYPD while there, too. In the subway station you sometimes encounter these horrible, counter-intuitive turnstiles that are the worst things in the history of subway stations. Upon entering a subway station and seeing only these turnstiles and no other option to go to instead, I walked up to one, scanned my MetroCard, and tried to walk in- only to have it not open. I tried in vain, with other people trying to help me, but my time expired and it didn't let me go. I went to scan my card again and it said "Just used", a stupid feature of the cards that requires you to wait 15 minutes before swiping your card again. Patricia, who had gotten through successfully, turned and opened the emergency door for me. Two cops stopped us before we got too far. One said to me, "Um, excuse me, is there a reason you went through the emergency exit instead of through the turnstile?" to which I happily responded, yes, there is. He told me that I "should have gone around to the other side of the station, even though it would have been out of my way". I responded that I was not a local and that I was from Texas so I didn't know, and his demeanor immediately became much more friendly. He and his friend then stood there and talked to me about Texas and Texas tv shows for 10 minutes before letting me go and telling me to "be careful out there". I guess it just proves that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

Monday, October 28, 2013

A rant, and some pics

If there's one thing that is a big pet peeve of mine, it is unsolicited advice.

I differentiate this from the constructive criticism I get on my school work, which I appreciate as it helps me to learn and improve my writing/designing etc. I also differentiate it from people that have my best interests in mind who are simply passing on wisdom they've learned over the years.

But I cannot stand it when people tell me what/how to do things, just to talk themselves up or to try and put me down.

Example: I had Rosa out the other day, and I was working with her on getting used to a longe line, as she's pretty wild right now. She had essentially a year off after she was halter broken, so I can't blame her there. One of my neighbors saw me and stopped by to inquire about her, as he knew she was new. I've talked to this neighbor in the past, as he owns some horses down the road from me. He told me at the time that he has broken hundreds of horses. I've broken two, so I could stand to learn from him, as I'm sure he has seen every personality type there is.

However, he shot himself in the foot by immediately telling me about how awful the guy (SC) I bought her from was, and saying that if SC had had anything to do with her, I was going to have a problem on my hands with her. I really don't like it when people put each other down in the horse world. If there is serious evidence for a negative quality, then all one needs to say is a statement of the facts. Otherwise, we're all in this hobby together, and we all have a high probability of crossing paths with each other at some point, so burning bridges is a stupid thing to do. Also, I watched SC load her onto the trailer, and he was nothing but patient and kind to her so as not to traumatize her. I know people can put on different faces, but loading a yearling onto a trailer is a semi-stressful situation for all involved, and he handled it very well.

He then proceeded to tell me everything that I needed to be doing with the colt, how I needed to start her, etc. One of his words of wisdom was "If you're breaking her to do English with her, then you're wasting your time." At this I wanted to respond with some not very nice words, but I simply said tightly, "I wasn't planning on it, but thanks." At the end of our conversation, which lasted so long that my carefully planned out evening went into the trash and I had to feed in the dark, I felt defeated, unqualified, and like I had made a terrible decision in getting Rosa. And this is just what I'm talking about- "advice" that is meant more to make the other person look better, while tearing the recipient down.

This dejected feeling lasted a couple of days- and I've only owned the horse a week! But it subsided when I started teaching Rosa how to longe. I've never had to go from scratch like that, so I was kind of making it up as I went along. And guess what? Yesterday, she was longing around me without stopping/turning in/breaking gait. So I must be doing something right!

Rosa is going to be an interesting project, since she knows absolutely nothing. We had to revisit leading the other day- the same day that I spent 2 hours trying to catch her in the paddock. Also, since she's on the smaller end- something I do semi-blame on her former owner for not feeding her anything more than grass- I'm going to have to give her some more time to grow before I can break her. So, we'll see. I'm looking forward to seeing what I can do with an absolutely clean slate.

In other news, there are a lot of exciting things going on in my life right now, so I'm trying to hand them all up to God to let Him carry them where He wants them. Each brings forth its own challenges, but I know that God has a plan and will see me through them how He sees fit!

More Rosa pics:

At the place I got her from with bff Kyle in the background

"WHAT'S THAT?!"

Pretending to tie

Action shot
Fun observation: Rosa's mane is on the opposite side of her neck than Chica's and Sienna's. It's a weird feeling, combing it on that side!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Three horses? What is this, amateur hour?

If you read my blog, then congrats- you are officially one of a handful of people that knows I got another horse yesterday (and I'm dying to tell the world, but alas). This exclusive group does not include anyone in my family aside from my sister, so mum's the word! They'll find out when they need to know, and in the meantime, I don't have to get any flack for it ;)

If you are my mom and you happen to be reading this- aren't you glad you decided to check in and see what is going on in my life?

Saturday I drove Sienna down to Richmond, TX to stay with a friend for a little while that wants to try her out on the hunter/jumper circuit. I really wanted to be the one to learn that with her, but between school, job, and internship, I don't have time to haul her places or go to lessons right now. So, hopefully she's gaining a useful skill to add to her repertoire. And meanwhile, she's off my feedbill.

Sunday, aka yesterday, I drove back up through Caldwell and picked up my new horse, a 2012 bay AQHA filly. I've already sent off the transfer papers. I'm just a *little* excited.


Welcome to the family, Rosa! We're all mad here.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

When in doubt... fake it 'til you make it!

As mentioned in a previous post, I'm taking Sienna to an APHA show the first weekend of November. Obviously, because of this, I've been working hard, riding every day, getting the both of us in shape and polished up.

Or... not.

I could go through and list my excuses, but they are just that- excuses. I'll be sitting at work, thinking how much I want to be home and riding, and then I get home and I'm exhausted by the thought of everything I have to do for school and etc. And so riding gets put on the back burner, over and over.

This is our first APHA show- oh, and it's the first show where I'll show Sienna in a riding class. I should be panicked, right? I probably would be, if it weren't for a ride we had a week or two ago. It was our first ride since all of my health issues. I saddled up and hopped on without longing, expecting to just have to sit back and hope for the best. And guess what? Sienna obliged me with everything I asked. We had to work a little bit on our canter departure, but she even seemed to remember that after a few rounds. We cantered all over the property, around hair pin curves, across straight-aways, through obstacle courses- and she never broke stride unless I asked her to. I was completely dumbfounded. It was such a good ride- is someone riding my horse during the day when I'm not home?

I know that it could have been a fluke, and we definitely need to practice like crazy before this show. But it actually gave me a small pang of pride- my girl is growing up and remembering how to behave. Maybe as she matures we will quarrel less and less. Maybe next time I pop on her, she'll throw me in a mad display of bucking. At least she has proven herself to be quiet and obedient at the different show grounds she has been to!

"What judge will hate me?"

Friday, September 13, 2013

Season of travel!

If you know me, you know how much I LOVE to travel- especially if it's to somewhere new. And guess what?! Starting this month, I have four trips planned through November!

First up, I'm heading to Galveston for an overnight stay with my bffs Patricia and Kaitlin for Patricia's birthday! Yay for food, beach, pleasure pier, and possibly a ghost hunting tour (lol).
 

The following weekend, I head to San Antonio for the Southwest Veterinary Symposium with my boss. I haven't really been to San Antonio since I was in high school, minus going to see a concert in college (which I don't really count because all I remember is getting lost). We're staying on the riverwalk, so besides working part of the day at the conference, I'll get to explore!
 


In November, I'm attending an APHA show in Waco with Sienna and some horsey friends. I'm sticking to this one like glue, since the more convenient Bryan show didn't work out thanks to my surgery. Better start working out now in preparation for breeches.



And then right after the show, I drive home to Houston and fly out the next day to NEW YORK CITY!! Ahhhh I can't wait! I've never been to the northeast, so I expect it to be a huge culture shock- especially being in THE city (or so I've heard).



I expect it to be just like Friends and Seinfeld. I'm staying with a friend, so I get to save a lot of money, and I get the like "insider's scoop" on things to do/how to get places. I'm for sure seeing Phantom on Broadway (and possibly more excited about that than anything else). Otherwise, the sky's the limit!

So many things to look forward to- better get back to working on internship/school/work now. Sigh!

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

It just got real. Too real.

A friend shared this article on facebook written by someone named "Amanda", and the title intrigued me: "26, unmarried, and childless". So spot on for myself that I had to read it.

Let me preface this by saying that I am happy with my current state of being. I have 2 dogs, 1 cat and 2 horses that I absolutely adore and who most of the time feel the same way about me. I have a wonderful family who will drop what they are doing and drive 2 hours away to help me when I need it. I have the best grandparents in the world who are wonderful examples of a godly, Christian marriage. My close friends are always there when I need them. And while sure, I would love to be in a relationship, I can't say I care much for the idea of having kids at this point in my life, or even being married anytime soon.

What I do have a problem with is the seemingly innocent things people say to me, which she hits on in her article. As far as not being in a relationship, one thing I particularly hate hearing in addition to what she says is "You should try online dating". I would never presume that I knew more about where a person was in their own life than they themselves do, so I find this statement particularly offensive, especially when it is delivered to me without preface. It's as if I'm not doing enough (?) to find my other half, and this person thinks the only solution is to take to the interwebs in the hopes that I'm matched up with that someone perfect.

I'll say right now: my current city is not conducive to meeting people. Since it's a college town, the majority of the population is at least 4 years younger than me, and most people my age are married or in a serious relationship. But on the other hand, I work full time, I take classes full time, I'm doing an internship for my classes, and I try to ride and spend time with my pets in between- I don't have time to meet anyone right now, online or otherwise!

Then, there is the whole child thing. I've never felt drawn to the idea of having kids. I'm aware that may change if I get married. But if you want me to punch you in the face, then say to me, "Oh, you'll change your mind about having kids one day." So what if I do? Or if I don't? Is that really anyone's business but my own? It's like people are so blown away by my dismissal of motherhood that they try to find something to say that makes themselves feel better while completely disregarding my thoughts. I can understand that when I meet someone I want to marry, I may relish the thought of a little copy of us running around. But I have many reasons for not wanting kids, in addition to just plain not wanting them! And I don't think I should be judged for refusing to bring a kid into this world just because it's the "thing to do". Honestly, the only good thing I see about having a kid is buying them their own horse, which will be another horse for myself. I said it.

So, before my feelings get too intense (this is supposed to be a blog about ponies and pictures and the diverse averageness that is life), I'll finish by saying that I hope you'll read the article and maybe think about the message you're giving to singles/childless/etc when you think you're being helpful or funny. Chances are, either we're happy with our lives and don't need unwarranted advice, or we're incredibly aware of what we see as our shortcomings and don't need them acknowledged over and over.

Friday, September 6, 2013

Exciting times ahead!

This semester is going to be crazy. And I say that will all of the affection in my heart! In addition to working full time, I am taking 12 hours this semester- 9 hours of which are class, and the other 3 of which are an internship with Musa Publishing's Aurora Regency imprint. A big part of my responsibility is updating, managing, and writing for the Aurora Regency blog. I will get to write historical articles, notices about new releases, and also work with authors who are also writing articles for the blog. I'm very excited!

The classes I am taking now range from intro to publishing, to publication design, to 17th century British poetry. The design class has had a surprising amount of freehand drawing in it, and I'm no artist- and yet my first two projects have turned out pretty well. One of them was using graph paper to draw a font, and I churned out a blocky, stubby font that I named "Corgi" for obvious reasons.

I'm a little leery of having so many things on my plate (in addition to riding and whatever other activities), but if I can get through this, I'll only have to take 6 hours of class (2 electives) and one more internship next semester- and I can graduate in May! Also, with the cooler weather approaching, my house will be more pleasant to live in, which will lead to a much less stressed out me. Winter is coming!

Since I don't like to write posts that don't have pictures, I'm going to switch gears now to my wildlife sightings over the last week.

First: One night, about 9:00, I let Romeo and Fiona out back to go do their business. I noticed that Fiona was jumping (in playful fashion) at something, and I yelled at her to stop, thinking she had found a scorpion. She ignored me and continued on, so I went outside to yell at her better. What I saw almost gave me a heart attack: a huge, dark, long shape in the grass. After screaming at her to get away (and scaring her half to death in the process), and then screaming at Romeo to get away as he came trotting back up, I took a closer look to see what was hanging out next to my porch:



I'm not particularly afraid of snakes, having owned 4 in the past, but when I see my little dog playing with a random, yet-to-be-identified-as-venemous-or-not snake, I panic.


As I was shining the light in its face (and probably confusing the heck out of it), the feral cats discovered it. While the kittens hung back, Lexie walked up and sat next to it, following it as it moved, and meowed at it. I think it was the equivalent of a bouncer escorting someone from a building. Cas walked up to it, slapped it a couple of times, and walked away.

It looks to me like a broad banded water snake, which is not venomous. It didn't show me any aggression, in spite of me getting so close to it and shining the light in its eyes, and seemed more like it wanted to get away than anything else. I left it to itself (and to the cats, if they wanted), and the next time I took the dogs out, it was gone.

Wednesday night I was driving home from eating dinner with my older brother, and when I was about 3 miles away from my house, I drove up on a large herd of hogs out next to the road. You can't really tell what they are in the picture, so take my word for it.


Usually hogs run before I can catch them in my headlights; these guys weren't very frightened by my truck. I drove off the road a little, trying to get better lighting for a picture, but they stayed on the move.

There's always something new and different when living out in the country, be it animals, creepy drivers that cruise very slowly past, or sudden, unexplained explosions that rock your house (happened last night and horrifically scared me, my roommate, and Fiona). I guess that's part of its charm, eh?

Friday, August 30, 2013

Monday, August 19, 2013

My Little Ponies

As promised, the horses were bathed this weekend and photos were taken!

First up, Chica the Magnificent:

Da hoss.
Followed by Chica the Unimpressed:

And Rude
Not to be outdone by Chica with the Luxurious Tail:

I trim it off the ground probably every 6 months- why can't my hair grow like that?

And finally, Chica the Gorgeous:

Keeping herself in shape since '00

Next, it was Sienna's turn. Since Chica is (generally) voice controlled, I ditched the lead with her immediately to keep it out of the way. With Sienna, I wasn't sure how well that would go over- but she surprised me and kept still, in spite of the grass tempting her underfoot.

Who, me?
Sienna the Well-Fed:

The camera adds 100 pounds

Sienna the Undistracted by the Neighbor's Annoying Dog in the Bacground:

Also Sienna the Arabian/Warmblood Stallion because of background- anyone else get it?
And finally, Sienna the Giraffe:

By Zippos Giraffe Dude
I'm not sure if poor Sienna suffers from Second Child Syndrome, in that I took almost 2x as many pictures of Chica as I did Sienna, or if it was just that the heat/humidity/bugs were starting to drive me insane.

I had a fun afternoon with my girls- especially after a couple weeks of being unable to ride. Unfortunately I seem to have overdone it, and until my surgery next Monday, my horse excursions are going to have to be kept to feeding. But at least I got a little fun in the sun this Sunday!



Thursday, August 15, 2013

My Impromtu "Vacation"

I went home Friday night, August 2nd, not expecting to spend 2 days of the next week in the ER and the rest of the time recuperating at various places- some at my house, some at my grandparents' house, and some at my parents' house.

Without my horses and cat to keep me busy (my roommate stepped up and took care of them for me), and with half of my family at work all day, what was I to do to entertain myself in the moments I wasn't asleep?

Oh, yeah- maybe hang out with this motley crew?

All Burlingame dogs: Pose now!
If you read my blog, you know that the two on the right- Romeo, the lab, and Fiona, the corgi- are my two babies that basically go with me everywhere. The other three belong to my parents. There's Rio the Great Pyrenees mix, and Dixie and Daphnee the Bichon Frises.

Five dogs is a lot spatially to have in a room- and even more so when the corgi, lab, and Pyrenees mix want to run around and play like a bunch of banshees. Of course, the Bichons don't partake in such rough-housing- they prefer to sleep on top of the couches and turn their noses up at any interaction from the blue-collar crew, especially Fiona. Sometimes Romeo will walk over and sniff at them, eliciting a growl from them as they daintily turn and face the other way. But Fiona is the bane of their collective existence. Their growling and snapping does little to deter her happy-go-lucky corgi mind; she merely jumps back and barks at them before tearing around the room, herding them to wherever she wants them to go. One day she successfully kept Dixie penned in the kitchen, in spite of there being two entrances on opposite sides of the kitchen, for a good several minutes before Dixie ran under a couch to get away from her. They are fortunate that she has about 10 pounds on them, so they can still get to places that she can't!

The only time they think she is ok is at times like this:

Dixie waits patiently while Fiona snoozes

The Bichons are all about quiet time
Dixie and Dapnee may be dainty little powder puffs like those that a past king of France (Henry III) wore around his neck in a tray-like basket (no joke), but Fiona expects to be treated in no lesser fashion. After all, she is British royalty herself (maybe that's why they don't get along)!

During one period of laying on the couch, being bored by what was on tv, I set a laundry basket upright and told Fiona to jump in, which, after some pacing and complicated mathematics I'm sure, she was able to oblige me with:

"And how else may I please you?"

She sat like that for probably 10 minutes, until I told her to get back out. Mostly because I got distracted by something on tv and forgot she was in there.

Later, like a good hour later, Fiona did something bad- possibly grabbed onto Romeo's jowls so that he would drag her across the room, what fun!- and I muttered to her that I was going to put her in her kennel if she did that again. She looked at me, turned around, trotted over to the forgotten laundry basket, which was now laying on its side, and crawled in and laid down. I haven't laughed that hard in I don't know how long. In her defense, it looks like a crate, with its slats- such a smart girl!

I returned from my parents' home this Monday so that I could go back to work the rest of the week, at least until my doctor's appointment tomorrow morning. And another member of my Royal family (how did I get to be so lucky?), His Highness King Ramses the Lionhearted, was so excited to see me, it made returning to work a little more bearable.

So happy, I'll even pose for you!
I love my little family! Depending on how the doctor goes tomorrow, maybe I'll get new pictures of everyone, ponies included, this weekend. It would be a good incentive to give them baths. Sienna has been caked with mud all this week and I haven't had the energy to do anything about it... perhaps the recent rain will help wash it off.

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

The month wherein all my horse plans fall through.

I've been working towards showing Sienna at an APHA show coming up at the end of the month. In addition to working her pretty hard, I've been locking her up at night and only letting her out into a small paddock during the day. She's actually looking less pregnant and more like a fit horse!

However, after a trip to the emergency room Saturday, where it was discovered that I have a kidney stone in my right kidney and some sort of growth on my left kidney, it would appear that my efforts were all for naught.

At first it was thought that the growth on my kidney was a hemorrhagic cyst, basically a cyst that has started bleeding into the kidney. However, the urologist I visited today isn't so sure. I don't remember a lot of the visit, due to him throwing around "rare kidney cancer" and "really rare bladder cancer". I barely made it out of the room before I burst into tears.

My mom assures me that he just wants to rule them out, that he isn't necessarily saying I have one of those. Apparently I could have any number of things.

I can't tell you how surreal it is to sit in a room and have a doctor discuss the possibility that you have cancer. I even thought something along the lines of "how in the world is this happening right now?".

I'd say I'm not panicking yet, but that's not true. What I am trying to do is trust God that His plan will work through this and that somehow He will be glorified in the process. I will be undergoing another cat scan on Monday with iodine so he can get a better picture of my kidneys. I'm praying for a good result.

And meanwhile, I'm really missing riding. I'm sad my show isn't going to work out, and I'm even sadder we won't be ready for the jumping show. I hope that I'll be riding again soon enough; in the meantime, just have to get through the days ahead.

Monday, August 5, 2013

Monday, July 29, 2013

Fun in the Sun!

...could be the name of someone's blog in California, perhaps. In Texas, it might be more appropriate to name this "I Rode at 6:00 PM and Lived to Tell About It" or "90% Humidity Almost Got the Best of Me"

I usually wait until at least 7 PM to ride, thanks to the awful humidity and heat that Central "Oven" Texas is known for. Saturday, however, a friend came up to ride, so for the sake of his time, and because it was only a balmy 88 degrees vs the usual 108 degrees, I decided to go ahead and start a little earlier.

This friend has not ridden a horse recently- as in, he hadn't ridden since he was a child on a packer trail ride in the Smokies- so the ride promised to be fun. I saddled up Miss Chica Chica, jumped on, and warmed her up (jusssst in case she wanted to be sassy at first) so that he could see how to steer her, voice control her, etc. She was a rock star, in spite of not being ridden regularly. Also, it was the first time I'd ridden her in a saddle in I don't know how long.

Once he got onto Chica, I had him do something "simple" to start off with. I pointed at a tree, and said, "Walk her over to that tree." They proceeded to do the most drunken amble to the tree- she'd start to go slightly off course, he would over-correct, and suddenly they would be headed in the complete opposite direction. "Think of your reins like a steering wheel" I told him. "You don't want to over-correct a car, so apply that thought process to riding". After pointing at different objects for a while so he could figure out the steering process, I left him to ride around and get used to the feel of Chica while I hopped on Sienna.

After giving her (and myself) a good workout, we headed out into the pasture to trail ride. It was fun and made me appreciate having a second horse that a friend could ride (although I think I scared him when I casually (and sarcastically and possibly maniacally) said "I need more horses so that [my roommate] and [my sister, who was also present] can ride with us!"). He handled the "canyon" that we have to cross to get to the other pasture- the one that Sienna likes to take the road less traveled on and leap to the little catwalk along the top of it, surprisingly. The only "ahhhh!" moment we had was when he dropped one of his reins, and Chica stepped on it and popped herself. I maneuvered Sienna in and grabbed it before anything more exciting could happen.

I was very proud of my girls when we got back- they both behaved so well. While my sister jumped on Chica for a few minutes, he tried out the English saddle on Sienna- I asked him later if he preferred the western or English saddle, and he said he felt more masculine in the western, lol- and Sienna was awesome with him as well.

After the others were done riding, we set up a jump for me and Sienna that involved two buckets with a longe whip across them as the jump. I think, after encountering such ingenuity, she will one day be broke to anything and everything. At first, she kind of just trotted through it without any inclination to jump it, but when I cantered her over it, she jumped. We raised it higher, and she cantered over it without hesitation. It was SO MUCH FUN and I think, if I still have her in a few months, I'm going to take her to a HJ show and try it out!!! (I'm excited) Video below!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IxMhp5BgxhA

The quality is horrible because for some reason, transferring anything from an iPhone to another medium makes it suck, but you get the gist. Also, I have no pictures from this day, other than the video, so I could have made the whole thing up. You'll never know.

Unrelated to horses, KITTENS! They are getting so big. We've found a home for a grand total of ONE of them, leaving us with six. I have a friend who says that she wants one as soon as she moves to her new apartment, so hopefully everything will work out and we will have "only" five. Eight outside cats total. Oui vey. I can't afford to get all of those guys spayed and neutered, so I don't know what we're going to do.

At least they're cute!
This one's my fav-nooooo I can't say that!
I suppose I could take them to the shelter, but black cats have a rough time of it there. It sucks when you have so many people tell you they're interested in taking a kitten, then not follow through. It has become one of my biggest pet peeves.

Finally (this is getting to be long because it has been quite a while since my last post), I had the pleasure of being a bridesmaid in my friend Kaitlin's wedding. It was SO beautiful, held at a gorgeous facility.

Pre-wedding make up and hair
The lovely bride
Bridesmaids
You know I'm going to need a picture on this chaise lounge.
We had a lot of fun getting ready the morning before, and I only stepped on my dress once during the ceremony (fortunately my attendant kept me from making a scene by supporting me!). I can't wait to see the pictures, or to welcome Mrs. Vincent back from her honeymoon!

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

The Ups and Downs of Horse Selling

It all happened so quickly- I casually mentioned to a trainer friend that I wanted to sell Sienna, she told me to send her some info on her, and 3 days later I was on the road, hauling Sienna 2 hours away to let her client try her out.

Here I might interject that Sienna had a grand total of 3 days of riding on her before I loaded her up and took her down, after several months off thanks to school. I might also add that two of those days were days that I worked until 8:30 PM and 8 PM, respectively, so the riding took place in the dark.

Sienna was a superstar for these people (a mom, a dad, and a nine- year old girl, all beginners) from the moment I unloaded her. She calmly looked around at the barn,  and then we walked back to the trailer and tacked up. I jumped on her first, and she walked, trotted, and cantered immediately on cue, backed, pivoted, and whoaed exceptionally. Then the mom got on Sienna in the round pen, and in spite of the fact that she had a hard time getting her to canter, Sienna was patient and forgiving the entire ride. The little girl got on next, all smiles, and (once she had practiced kicking hard enough that Sienna could actually feel her little legs) had Sienna walking and trotting everywhere in no time. After the ride, the people hosed her off, the little girl braided her tail, using her own hair band to hold the braid in, and then walked off with her, letting her graze. Sienna was polite and respectful- she could not have shown herself off better. The people tried out another older, more bombproof horse, but they liked Sienna better, thought she was prettier, and she suited their future needs more than the other horse (ie, she is a potential English show horse, whereas he was not).

The mom told me that they really liked her, the dad inquired with the barn owner about which stall they would keep her in, and, although the mom told me they would think it over and get back to me the next day, everything seemed so sure that I ended up leaving Sienna at the barn instead of driving her all the way back. I mean, the dad told the barn owner it was a done deal.

The next day rolls around, and I hear nothing. Then the next- nothing. Finally the third day comes, and I get the news: the people don't think their budget can afford the monthly care and lessons they would want to take to own a horse.

I was understandably upset- I mean, what kind of person doesn't figure that out before a) putting a bunch of people out and b) telling their young daughter they are horse shopping for her? But it comes with the territory. Horse selling (and buying) can be a really frustrating deal, especially if you are in a hurry. Fortunately I can wait for the right owner to come along, but it would have been really nice if these people had bought her because they got along so well and I would have gotten to see her often where she was boarded.

This experience made me realize four things:

1) I have trained Sienna much better than I give myself (or her) credit for

2) In spite of being sad to leave her behind, I really am ready to sell her and move on

3) In the interim of waiting for interested parties to find her, I'd like to seriously start jumping her

4) Don't start looking at other horses and getting excited about the next one until the sale is a done deal!

Too cool for the faint of heart