Monday, November 11, 2013

A week in the Big Apple

After several years of planning (and having plans fall through), I finally got to travel up to New York City last week. It was a blast! And I have never been so exhausted from walking around.

All of my pictures are on my phone, meaning that I have no idea if or when I'll upload them to a computer. But here are a few to start with!

Monday I arrived and used the UBER private car service, which I highly recommend, to get to Jess' house in Brooklyn from LaGuardia. Shortly after I arrived and dropped off my bags, Patricia, Grace and I went into Manhattan to see the 9/11 memorial, which is incredible and very moving. Afterwards, we walked around a little while, waiting on Jess to get off work so we could meet up with her for dinner (at the BEST Italian restaurant I've ever been to, Pepe Giallo). We stumbled upon these lighted trees across from the memorial:


Tuesday, we took the subway back into Manhattan with Jess on her way to work, stopped and ate delicious NYC bagels with way too much (aka a perfect amount) of cream cheese, and then headed into Central Park. The leaves are changing right now, which means that CP is absolutely gorgeous and definitely my favorite place in the whole city. It is such a nice change of pace from the GO GO GO feel of NYC. Definitely more my speed.


We went to the Rockefeller Center afterwards to go ice skating, which was a lesson in humility. I never actually fell, but there were a couple of close calls. Also I realized that I'm not my teenage self anymore that can skate for hours and never want to stop. There was a lot of stopping. And groaning. And clutching my leg that insisted on bending at an awkward angle every time I went around a curve.



After ice skating, we walked around the area for a while, checking out the New York Public Library and Grand Central Station, both of which are beautiful buildings. Later, after an unexpected subway ride to 125th street (almost into the Bronx) where we learned the difference between an express and a local train, we met up with my friend Molly, who attends school in Manhattan, and her dog Murphy. It's funny how many people stop and ask someone who has a dog for directions. Afterwards, Patricia, Jess and I met up at the Russian Vodka Room for martinis, which, let's just say, made friends out of everyone in the bar.

Wednesday, we went back to the bagel place near Jess' work, then went to check out the Empire State building. We went all the way to the top, where we peered over the city like forgotten birds, a trip that was expedited by Jess' landlord working in the building and offering to get us a) discounted tickets and b) to the front of the line.



After the ESB, we went to the Macy's on 5th avenue for lunch, then made our way to Broadway for what I was most excited about: The Phantom of the Opera. It was SO wonderful and so worth the money. I loved it so much that I would have stayed for the next showing if I could have. It was definitely a dream come true and the best part of the whole trip, in my opinion.

After Phantom, we walked through Times Square, a place that you won't really believe until you're there- the screens were so bright that it was like day- just for the experience. There were people trying to get into the Guinness Book of World Records, there were people constantly hassling us about a comedy club, and we saw Batman and Spiderman walk by. We then made our way back to Jess' work so that we could get dinner somewhere before going to a local bar to hear her friend sing during open mic night.

The restaurant we ended up at, Trattoria Spaghetto, was awesome. We had been standing outside, reading the menu, when the owner came out, trying to get us to come in. We hedged, because we weren't sure how much time we had to eat, but we finally decided to go in, and he treated us like royalty. He kept our glasses full at all times, brought us an appetizer on the house, helped me with my coat, and brought us after dinner drinks again on the house, all while speaking with his delightful Italian accent. He definitely earned my business again if I'm ever back over there.

Thursday, my final day, we headed to the Staten Island ferry to see the statue of liberty. It was cold on the boat, but it was nice to be able to sit down. We passed fairly close to the statue and were able to get lots of pictures. While waiting on Staten Island for the return ferry, we met a woman who had been on the same ferry the day the planes hit the twin towers. She told us all about her perspective, and I really enjoyed listening to her. She, like the majority of the people I met while in NYC, was very kind and excited for our trip to the city and had lots of suggestions for things to do. Based on my own experience I don't know where the "rude New Yorkers" stereotype comes from- certainly most people are in a hurry there and might be brusque, but to this Texan, they were perfectly civil. One lady even went out of her way to help us when she overheard us wondering where something was.

Like I said in opening, I was so exhausted from my vacation- NYC walking is quite different than regular walking! By the end of the second day my feet hurt so badly that I would have paid someone to let me just sit down on the street. And the constant climbing/descending the subway stairs took a huge toll on my knee so that I was limping (in a quick fashion) everywhere. But I powered through, and I'm glad for the experiences I had. The city is a cool place, although not somewhere I could ever live!

Oh, and I had a run-in with the NYPD while there, too. In the subway station you sometimes encounter these horrible, counter-intuitive turnstiles that are the worst things in the history of subway stations. Upon entering a subway station and seeing only these turnstiles and no other option to go to instead, I walked up to one, scanned my MetroCard, and tried to walk in- only to have it not open. I tried in vain, with other people trying to help me, but my time expired and it didn't let me go. I went to scan my card again and it said "Just used", a stupid feature of the cards that requires you to wait 15 minutes before swiping your card again. Patricia, who had gotten through successfully, turned and opened the emergency door for me. Two cops stopped us before we got too far. One said to me, "Um, excuse me, is there a reason you went through the emergency exit instead of through the turnstile?" to which I happily responded, yes, there is. He told me that I "should have gone around to the other side of the station, even though it would have been out of my way". I responded that I was not a local and that I was from Texas so I didn't know, and his demeanor immediately became much more friendly. He and his friend then stood there and talked to me about Texas and Texas tv shows for 10 minutes before letting me go and telling me to "be careful out there". I guess it just proves that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

Monday, October 28, 2013

A rant, and some pics

If there's one thing that is a big pet peeve of mine, it is unsolicited advice.

I differentiate this from the constructive criticism I get on my school work, which I appreciate as it helps me to learn and improve my writing/designing etc. I also differentiate it from people that have my best interests in mind who are simply passing on wisdom they've learned over the years.

But I cannot stand it when people tell me what/how to do things, just to talk themselves up or to try and put me down.

Example: I had Rosa out the other day, and I was working with her on getting used to a longe line, as she's pretty wild right now. She had essentially a year off after she was halter broken, so I can't blame her there. One of my neighbors saw me and stopped by to inquire about her, as he knew she was new. I've talked to this neighbor in the past, as he owns some horses down the road from me. He told me at the time that he has broken hundreds of horses. I've broken two, so I could stand to learn from him, as I'm sure he has seen every personality type there is.

However, he shot himself in the foot by immediately telling me about how awful the guy (SC) I bought her from was, and saying that if SC had had anything to do with her, I was going to have a problem on my hands with her. I really don't like it when people put each other down in the horse world. If there is serious evidence for a negative quality, then all one needs to say is a statement of the facts. Otherwise, we're all in this hobby together, and we all have a high probability of crossing paths with each other at some point, so burning bridges is a stupid thing to do. Also, I watched SC load her onto the trailer, and he was nothing but patient and kind to her so as not to traumatize her. I know people can put on different faces, but loading a yearling onto a trailer is a semi-stressful situation for all involved, and he handled it very well.

He then proceeded to tell me everything that I needed to be doing with the colt, how I needed to start her, etc. One of his words of wisdom was "If you're breaking her to do English with her, then you're wasting your time." At this I wanted to respond with some not very nice words, but I simply said tightly, "I wasn't planning on it, but thanks." At the end of our conversation, which lasted so long that my carefully planned out evening went into the trash and I had to feed in the dark, I felt defeated, unqualified, and like I had made a terrible decision in getting Rosa. And this is just what I'm talking about- "advice" that is meant more to make the other person look better, while tearing the recipient down.

This dejected feeling lasted a couple of days- and I've only owned the horse a week! But it subsided when I started teaching Rosa how to longe. I've never had to go from scratch like that, so I was kind of making it up as I went along. And guess what? Yesterday, she was longing around me without stopping/turning in/breaking gait. So I must be doing something right!

Rosa is going to be an interesting project, since she knows absolutely nothing. We had to revisit leading the other day- the same day that I spent 2 hours trying to catch her in the paddock. Also, since she's on the smaller end- something I do semi-blame on her former owner for not feeding her anything more than grass- I'm going to have to give her some more time to grow before I can break her. So, we'll see. I'm looking forward to seeing what I can do with an absolutely clean slate.

In other news, there are a lot of exciting things going on in my life right now, so I'm trying to hand them all up to God to let Him carry them where He wants them. Each brings forth its own challenges, but I know that God has a plan and will see me through them how He sees fit!

More Rosa pics:

At the place I got her from with bff Kyle in the background

"WHAT'S THAT?!"

Pretending to tie

Action shot
Fun observation: Rosa's mane is on the opposite side of her neck than Chica's and Sienna's. It's a weird feeling, combing it on that side!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Three horses? What is this, amateur hour?

If you read my blog, then congrats- you are officially one of a handful of people that knows I got another horse yesterday (and I'm dying to tell the world, but alas). This exclusive group does not include anyone in my family aside from my sister, so mum's the word! They'll find out when they need to know, and in the meantime, I don't have to get any flack for it ;)

If you are my mom and you happen to be reading this- aren't you glad you decided to check in and see what is going on in my life?

Saturday I drove Sienna down to Richmond, TX to stay with a friend for a little while that wants to try her out on the hunter/jumper circuit. I really wanted to be the one to learn that with her, but between school, job, and internship, I don't have time to haul her places or go to lessons right now. So, hopefully she's gaining a useful skill to add to her repertoire. And meanwhile, she's off my feedbill.

Sunday, aka yesterday, I drove back up through Caldwell and picked up my new horse, a 2012 bay AQHA filly. I've already sent off the transfer papers. I'm just a *little* excited.


Welcome to the family, Rosa! We're all mad here.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

When in doubt... fake it 'til you make it!

As mentioned in a previous post, I'm taking Sienna to an APHA show the first weekend of November. Obviously, because of this, I've been working hard, riding every day, getting the both of us in shape and polished up.

Or... not.

I could go through and list my excuses, but they are just that- excuses. I'll be sitting at work, thinking how much I want to be home and riding, and then I get home and I'm exhausted by the thought of everything I have to do for school and etc. And so riding gets put on the back burner, over and over.

This is our first APHA show- oh, and it's the first show where I'll show Sienna in a riding class. I should be panicked, right? I probably would be, if it weren't for a ride we had a week or two ago. It was our first ride since all of my health issues. I saddled up and hopped on without longing, expecting to just have to sit back and hope for the best. And guess what? Sienna obliged me with everything I asked. We had to work a little bit on our canter departure, but she even seemed to remember that after a few rounds. We cantered all over the property, around hair pin curves, across straight-aways, through obstacle courses- and she never broke stride unless I asked her to. I was completely dumbfounded. It was such a good ride- is someone riding my horse during the day when I'm not home?

I know that it could have been a fluke, and we definitely need to practice like crazy before this show. But it actually gave me a small pang of pride- my girl is growing up and remembering how to behave. Maybe as she matures we will quarrel less and less. Maybe next time I pop on her, she'll throw me in a mad display of bucking. At least she has proven herself to be quiet and obedient at the different show grounds she has been to!

"What judge will hate me?"

Friday, September 13, 2013

Season of travel!

If you know me, you know how much I LOVE to travel- especially if it's to somewhere new. And guess what?! Starting this month, I have four trips planned through November!

First up, I'm heading to Galveston for an overnight stay with my bffs Patricia and Kaitlin for Patricia's birthday! Yay for food, beach, pleasure pier, and possibly a ghost hunting tour (lol).
 

The following weekend, I head to San Antonio for the Southwest Veterinary Symposium with my boss. I haven't really been to San Antonio since I was in high school, minus going to see a concert in college (which I don't really count because all I remember is getting lost). We're staying on the riverwalk, so besides working part of the day at the conference, I'll get to explore!
 


In November, I'm attending an APHA show in Waco with Sienna and some horsey friends. I'm sticking to this one like glue, since the more convenient Bryan show didn't work out thanks to my surgery. Better start working out now in preparation for breeches.



And then right after the show, I drive home to Houston and fly out the next day to NEW YORK CITY!! Ahhhh I can't wait! I've never been to the northeast, so I expect it to be a huge culture shock- especially being in THE city (or so I've heard).



I expect it to be just like Friends and Seinfeld. I'm staying with a friend, so I get to save a lot of money, and I get the like "insider's scoop" on things to do/how to get places. I'm for sure seeing Phantom on Broadway (and possibly more excited about that than anything else). Otherwise, the sky's the limit!

So many things to look forward to- better get back to working on internship/school/work now. Sigh!

Wednesday, September 11, 2013

It just got real. Too real.

A friend shared this article on facebook written by someone named "Amanda", and the title intrigued me: "26, unmarried, and childless". So spot on for myself that I had to read it.

Let me preface this by saying that I am happy with my current state of being. I have 2 dogs, 1 cat and 2 horses that I absolutely adore and who most of the time feel the same way about me. I have a wonderful family who will drop what they are doing and drive 2 hours away to help me when I need it. I have the best grandparents in the world who are wonderful examples of a godly, Christian marriage. My close friends are always there when I need them. And while sure, I would love to be in a relationship, I can't say I care much for the idea of having kids at this point in my life, or even being married anytime soon.

What I do have a problem with is the seemingly innocent things people say to me, which she hits on in her article. As far as not being in a relationship, one thing I particularly hate hearing in addition to what she says is "You should try online dating". I would never presume that I knew more about where a person was in their own life than they themselves do, so I find this statement particularly offensive, especially when it is delivered to me without preface. It's as if I'm not doing enough (?) to find my other half, and this person thinks the only solution is to take to the interwebs in the hopes that I'm matched up with that someone perfect.

I'll say right now: my current city is not conducive to meeting people. Since it's a college town, the majority of the population is at least 4 years younger than me, and most people my age are married or in a serious relationship. But on the other hand, I work full time, I take classes full time, I'm doing an internship for my classes, and I try to ride and spend time with my pets in between- I don't have time to meet anyone right now, online or otherwise!

Then, there is the whole child thing. I've never felt drawn to the idea of having kids. I'm aware that may change if I get married. But if you want me to punch you in the face, then say to me, "Oh, you'll change your mind about having kids one day." So what if I do? Or if I don't? Is that really anyone's business but my own? It's like people are so blown away by my dismissal of motherhood that they try to find something to say that makes themselves feel better while completely disregarding my thoughts. I can understand that when I meet someone I want to marry, I may relish the thought of a little copy of us running around. But I have many reasons for not wanting kids, in addition to just plain not wanting them! And I don't think I should be judged for refusing to bring a kid into this world just because it's the "thing to do". Honestly, the only good thing I see about having a kid is buying them their own horse, which will be another horse for myself. I said it.

So, before my feelings get too intense (this is supposed to be a blog about ponies and pictures and the diverse averageness that is life), I'll finish by saying that I hope you'll read the article and maybe think about the message you're giving to singles/childless/etc when you think you're being helpful or funny. Chances are, either we're happy with our lives and don't need unwarranted advice, or we're incredibly aware of what we see as our shortcomings and don't need them acknowledged over and over.

Friday, September 6, 2013

Exciting times ahead!

This semester is going to be crazy. And I say that will all of the affection in my heart! In addition to working full time, I am taking 12 hours this semester- 9 hours of which are class, and the other 3 of which are an internship with Musa Publishing's Aurora Regency imprint. A big part of my responsibility is updating, managing, and writing for the Aurora Regency blog. I will get to write historical articles, notices about new releases, and also work with authors who are also writing articles for the blog. I'm very excited!

The classes I am taking now range from intro to publishing, to publication design, to 17th century British poetry. The design class has had a surprising amount of freehand drawing in it, and I'm no artist- and yet my first two projects have turned out pretty well. One of them was using graph paper to draw a font, and I churned out a blocky, stubby font that I named "Corgi" for obvious reasons.

I'm a little leery of having so many things on my plate (in addition to riding and whatever other activities), but if I can get through this, I'll only have to take 6 hours of class (2 electives) and one more internship next semester- and I can graduate in May! Also, with the cooler weather approaching, my house will be more pleasant to live in, which will lead to a much less stressed out me. Winter is coming!

Since I don't like to write posts that don't have pictures, I'm going to switch gears now to my wildlife sightings over the last week.

First: One night, about 9:00, I let Romeo and Fiona out back to go do their business. I noticed that Fiona was jumping (in playful fashion) at something, and I yelled at her to stop, thinking she had found a scorpion. She ignored me and continued on, so I went outside to yell at her better. What I saw almost gave me a heart attack: a huge, dark, long shape in the grass. After screaming at her to get away (and scaring her half to death in the process), and then screaming at Romeo to get away as he came trotting back up, I took a closer look to see what was hanging out next to my porch:



I'm not particularly afraid of snakes, having owned 4 in the past, but when I see my little dog playing with a random, yet-to-be-identified-as-venemous-or-not snake, I panic.


As I was shining the light in its face (and probably confusing the heck out of it), the feral cats discovered it. While the kittens hung back, Lexie walked up and sat next to it, following it as it moved, and meowed at it. I think it was the equivalent of a bouncer escorting someone from a building. Cas walked up to it, slapped it a couple of times, and walked away.

It looks to me like a broad banded water snake, which is not venomous. It didn't show me any aggression, in spite of me getting so close to it and shining the light in its eyes, and seemed more like it wanted to get away than anything else. I left it to itself (and to the cats, if they wanted), and the next time I took the dogs out, it was gone.

Wednesday night I was driving home from eating dinner with my older brother, and when I was about 3 miles away from my house, I drove up on a large herd of hogs out next to the road. You can't really tell what they are in the picture, so take my word for it.


Usually hogs run before I can catch them in my headlights; these guys weren't very frightened by my truck. I drove off the road a little, trying to get better lighting for a picture, but they stayed on the move.

There's always something new and different when living out in the country, be it animals, creepy drivers that cruise very slowly past, or sudden, unexplained explosions that rock your house (happened last night and horrifically scared me, my roommate, and Fiona). I guess that's part of its charm, eh?