Tuesday, November 26, 2013

It's the most wonderful time of the year... almost!

If I've harped on anything this year, it's how busy this semester has been. Taking 9 hours of classes, 3 hours of internship, working full time, and owning 3 horses is enough to stretch anyone's days... but, I've never been one to do things the easy way, so to top it off, I thought I might as well go for the gold and get a boyfriend too.

It's funny how things like that work out.

We've been dating for almost 2 months now. He lives in Dallas, which unfortunately makes this a long distance relationship, but he has been really good about staying in touch with me. We talk every night, we text off and on during the day, and he has driven down many a weekend to hang out with me. I finally get to reciprocate in a few weeks when I go up to Dallas for his office's Christmas party. It's just so much harder to travel when you have 2 dogs, 1 cat, and, of course, those horses, especially when you and your roommate are the sole care takers for the horses. If I could board them, traveling more would be a breeze!

He has no pets, but he likes my guys- and the inside three at least seem to feel the same way about him. Fiona would not stop licking him, Romeo loves everyone, and Ramses jumped into his lap- only to walk across him and climb into my lap and lie down, thereby sending the message that I already had a man in my life. So maybe the jury's out on Ramses. Chica was her usual unimpressed self, and Rosa was still so new when he visited that she didn't care what was going on as long as she got to eat.

So life is hectic right now, but I'm trying to not miss out on my favorite time of the year. In two weeks I should be done with classes, so I'm looking forward to that (minus the 2 research papers lying between me and the end). And then Christmas time! One and a half weeks off! Time for riding and relaxing and reading, my favorite r-words!

Come on, motivation. Just have to get through these next couple of weeks... how about a couple of dog pics to get through?

Pup pup likes to snuggle

"Better than the queen's corgis" according to a native Briton

All about comfort

Meanwhile... at the office...

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

My Heart Belongs To...?

While it is true that my heart will always and forever belong to Chica, there have been many other horses that can claim ownership to bits and pieces of it. One of those I randomly had a dream about last night. His name was Reyolena, and he was the colt I trained for an undergrad colt training class.

First week with Reyolena

While I wasn't overly excited about the bay gelding when I first saw him, he turned out to be the best horse for me in the class. He was smart, he wasn't overly babyish/flighty, and he was a really good ride. I'd say he and the filly that my TA rode turned out to be the best in the class- and I don't say that out of vanity or out of some mistaken belief that I was the best trainer. He was just so intelligent and easy to work with that it made my job easy.

From longing him, to driving him, to finally getting on and riding- with only a little bucking to start off with- I learned so much that I have since used when breaking other horses. He was a great teacher.

Longing

 A few of my "favorite" moments with Reyolena:

*that day it was storming and we got all 15-20 of us out in the covered arena, longing our 2 year old horses, while it thundered loudly (every time it thundered, Reyolena would gallop around me faster and faster, neighing to the other horses)

*the time we were loping along and he tripped, falling down onto his front end with his nose in the dirt and almost sending me flying off over his head. I consciously thought "If I fall off now and land in the dirt, I'm going to be filthy for work since I don't have time to go home and shower" and decided then and there that I was staying on, leaned back with all of my might, and hauled up on his face, righting him back on his feet.

*the time one guy's horse, Cooder, got loose in the arena and took off running for a cluster of horses and kids, only to turn at the last minute and come straight at Reyolena and I. I was standing next to Reyolena when Cooder hit him, knocking Reyolena into me and tossing me to the ground, which caused me to lose my hold on Reyolena. He took off and ran with the other horse until we could catch them. My TA came up and accusingly asked me what I had done, because he was an idiot.

Some of my actual favorite things about Reyolena:

*getting to work with him during holiday breaks, just to spend more time with him

*how much he loved the way my hair smelled and would always bury his nose against my head

*teaching him to drink out of a water fountain

*the bond he and I shared, even though I tried SO HARD not to get attached to him

Obsessed with my hair

Yep. In the end, I tried so hard to figure out how I could afford to buy him and keep two horses. There was no way at the time, and in the end I had to tell him goodbye and hope for the best for his future. I have no idea what happened to him, and my dream was a reflection of that- in it, I stumbled upon him and was happy to see he was still around. That's the hardest thing about training horses, to me. Some come along and you work with them and send them on their way, happy for the experience (and even happier to see them go). Some, however, make their way into your heart, in spite of your best efforts to keep them at arm's length. I'm looking at you, Reyolena, Chico, Annie, Ernie, Cherry, Topper, and Remington.

Monday, November 11, 2013

A week in the Big Apple

After several years of planning (and having plans fall through), I finally got to travel up to New York City last week. It was a blast! And I have never been so exhausted from walking around.

All of my pictures are on my phone, meaning that I have no idea if or when I'll upload them to a computer. But here are a few to start with!

Monday I arrived and used the UBER private car service, which I highly recommend, to get to Jess' house in Brooklyn from LaGuardia. Shortly after I arrived and dropped off my bags, Patricia, Grace and I went into Manhattan to see the 9/11 memorial, which is incredible and very moving. Afterwards, we walked around a little while, waiting on Jess to get off work so we could meet up with her for dinner (at the BEST Italian restaurant I've ever been to, Pepe Giallo). We stumbled upon these lighted trees across from the memorial:


Tuesday, we took the subway back into Manhattan with Jess on her way to work, stopped and ate delicious NYC bagels with way too much (aka a perfect amount) of cream cheese, and then headed into Central Park. The leaves are changing right now, which means that CP is absolutely gorgeous and definitely my favorite place in the whole city. It is such a nice change of pace from the GO GO GO feel of NYC. Definitely more my speed.


We went to the Rockefeller Center afterwards to go ice skating, which was a lesson in humility. I never actually fell, but there were a couple of close calls. Also I realized that I'm not my teenage self anymore that can skate for hours and never want to stop. There was a lot of stopping. And groaning. And clutching my leg that insisted on bending at an awkward angle every time I went around a curve.



After ice skating, we walked around the area for a while, checking out the New York Public Library and Grand Central Station, both of which are beautiful buildings. Later, after an unexpected subway ride to 125th street (almost into the Bronx) where we learned the difference between an express and a local train, we met up with my friend Molly, who attends school in Manhattan, and her dog Murphy. It's funny how many people stop and ask someone who has a dog for directions. Afterwards, Patricia, Jess and I met up at the Russian Vodka Room for martinis, which, let's just say, made friends out of everyone in the bar.

Wednesday, we went back to the bagel place near Jess' work, then went to check out the Empire State building. We went all the way to the top, where we peered over the city like forgotten birds, a trip that was expedited by Jess' landlord working in the building and offering to get us a) discounted tickets and b) to the front of the line.



After the ESB, we went to the Macy's on 5th avenue for lunch, then made our way to Broadway for what I was most excited about: The Phantom of the Opera. It was SO wonderful and so worth the money. I loved it so much that I would have stayed for the next showing if I could have. It was definitely a dream come true and the best part of the whole trip, in my opinion.

After Phantom, we walked through Times Square, a place that you won't really believe until you're there- the screens were so bright that it was like day- just for the experience. There were people trying to get into the Guinness Book of World Records, there were people constantly hassling us about a comedy club, and we saw Batman and Spiderman walk by. We then made our way back to Jess' work so that we could get dinner somewhere before going to a local bar to hear her friend sing during open mic night.

The restaurant we ended up at, Trattoria Spaghetto, was awesome. We had been standing outside, reading the menu, when the owner came out, trying to get us to come in. We hedged, because we weren't sure how much time we had to eat, but we finally decided to go in, and he treated us like royalty. He kept our glasses full at all times, brought us an appetizer on the house, helped me with my coat, and brought us after dinner drinks again on the house, all while speaking with his delightful Italian accent. He definitely earned my business again if I'm ever back over there.

Thursday, my final day, we headed to the Staten Island ferry to see the statue of liberty. It was cold on the boat, but it was nice to be able to sit down. We passed fairly close to the statue and were able to get lots of pictures. While waiting on Staten Island for the return ferry, we met a woman who had been on the same ferry the day the planes hit the twin towers. She told us all about her perspective, and I really enjoyed listening to her. She, like the majority of the people I met while in NYC, was very kind and excited for our trip to the city and had lots of suggestions for things to do. Based on my own experience I don't know where the "rude New Yorkers" stereotype comes from- certainly most people are in a hurry there and might be brusque, but to this Texan, they were perfectly civil. One lady even went out of her way to help us when she overheard us wondering where something was.

Like I said in opening, I was so exhausted from my vacation- NYC walking is quite different than regular walking! By the end of the second day my feet hurt so badly that I would have paid someone to let me just sit down on the street. And the constant climbing/descending the subway stairs took a huge toll on my knee so that I was limping (in a quick fashion) everywhere. But I powered through, and I'm glad for the experiences I had. The city is a cool place, although not somewhere I could ever live!

Oh, and I had a run-in with the NYPD while there, too. In the subway station you sometimes encounter these horrible, counter-intuitive turnstiles that are the worst things in the history of subway stations. Upon entering a subway station and seeing only these turnstiles and no other option to go to instead, I walked up to one, scanned my MetroCard, and tried to walk in- only to have it not open. I tried in vain, with other people trying to help me, but my time expired and it didn't let me go. I went to scan my card again and it said "Just used", a stupid feature of the cards that requires you to wait 15 minutes before swiping your card again. Patricia, who had gotten through successfully, turned and opened the emergency door for me. Two cops stopped us before we got too far. One said to me, "Um, excuse me, is there a reason you went through the emergency exit instead of through the turnstile?" to which I happily responded, yes, there is. He told me that I "should have gone around to the other side of the station, even though it would have been out of my way". I responded that I was not a local and that I was from Texas so I didn't know, and his demeanor immediately became much more friendly. He and his friend then stood there and talked to me about Texas and Texas tv shows for 10 minutes before letting me go and telling me to "be careful out there". I guess it just proves that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.

Monday, October 28, 2013

A rant, and some pics

If there's one thing that is a big pet peeve of mine, it is unsolicited advice.

I differentiate this from the constructive criticism I get on my school work, which I appreciate as it helps me to learn and improve my writing/designing etc. I also differentiate it from people that have my best interests in mind who are simply passing on wisdom they've learned over the years.

But I cannot stand it when people tell me what/how to do things, just to talk themselves up or to try and put me down.

Example: I had Rosa out the other day, and I was working with her on getting used to a longe line, as she's pretty wild right now. She had essentially a year off after she was halter broken, so I can't blame her there. One of my neighbors saw me and stopped by to inquire about her, as he knew she was new. I've talked to this neighbor in the past, as he owns some horses down the road from me. He told me at the time that he has broken hundreds of horses. I've broken two, so I could stand to learn from him, as I'm sure he has seen every personality type there is.

However, he shot himself in the foot by immediately telling me about how awful the guy (SC) I bought her from was, and saying that if SC had had anything to do with her, I was going to have a problem on my hands with her. I really don't like it when people put each other down in the horse world. If there is serious evidence for a negative quality, then all one needs to say is a statement of the facts. Otherwise, we're all in this hobby together, and we all have a high probability of crossing paths with each other at some point, so burning bridges is a stupid thing to do. Also, I watched SC load her onto the trailer, and he was nothing but patient and kind to her so as not to traumatize her. I know people can put on different faces, but loading a yearling onto a trailer is a semi-stressful situation for all involved, and he handled it very well.

He then proceeded to tell me everything that I needed to be doing with the colt, how I needed to start her, etc. One of his words of wisdom was "If you're breaking her to do English with her, then you're wasting your time." At this I wanted to respond with some not very nice words, but I simply said tightly, "I wasn't planning on it, but thanks." At the end of our conversation, which lasted so long that my carefully planned out evening went into the trash and I had to feed in the dark, I felt defeated, unqualified, and like I had made a terrible decision in getting Rosa. And this is just what I'm talking about- "advice" that is meant more to make the other person look better, while tearing the recipient down.

This dejected feeling lasted a couple of days- and I've only owned the horse a week! But it subsided when I started teaching Rosa how to longe. I've never had to go from scratch like that, so I was kind of making it up as I went along. And guess what? Yesterday, she was longing around me without stopping/turning in/breaking gait. So I must be doing something right!

Rosa is going to be an interesting project, since she knows absolutely nothing. We had to revisit leading the other day- the same day that I spent 2 hours trying to catch her in the paddock. Also, since she's on the smaller end- something I do semi-blame on her former owner for not feeding her anything more than grass- I'm going to have to give her some more time to grow before I can break her. So, we'll see. I'm looking forward to seeing what I can do with an absolutely clean slate.

In other news, there are a lot of exciting things going on in my life right now, so I'm trying to hand them all up to God to let Him carry them where He wants them. Each brings forth its own challenges, but I know that God has a plan and will see me through them how He sees fit!

More Rosa pics:

At the place I got her from with bff Kyle in the background

"WHAT'S THAT?!"

Pretending to tie

Action shot
Fun observation: Rosa's mane is on the opposite side of her neck than Chica's and Sienna's. It's a weird feeling, combing it on that side!

Monday, October 21, 2013

Three horses? What is this, amateur hour?

If you read my blog, then congrats- you are officially one of a handful of people that knows I got another horse yesterday (and I'm dying to tell the world, but alas). This exclusive group does not include anyone in my family aside from my sister, so mum's the word! They'll find out when they need to know, and in the meantime, I don't have to get any flack for it ;)

If you are my mom and you happen to be reading this- aren't you glad you decided to check in and see what is going on in my life?

Saturday I drove Sienna down to Richmond, TX to stay with a friend for a little while that wants to try her out on the hunter/jumper circuit. I really wanted to be the one to learn that with her, but between school, job, and internship, I don't have time to haul her places or go to lessons right now. So, hopefully she's gaining a useful skill to add to her repertoire. And meanwhile, she's off my feedbill.

Sunday, aka yesterday, I drove back up through Caldwell and picked up my new horse, a 2012 bay AQHA filly. I've already sent off the transfer papers. I'm just a *little* excited.


Welcome to the family, Rosa! We're all mad here.

Wednesday, October 2, 2013

When in doubt... fake it 'til you make it!

As mentioned in a previous post, I'm taking Sienna to an APHA show the first weekend of November. Obviously, because of this, I've been working hard, riding every day, getting the both of us in shape and polished up.

Or... not.

I could go through and list my excuses, but they are just that- excuses. I'll be sitting at work, thinking how much I want to be home and riding, and then I get home and I'm exhausted by the thought of everything I have to do for school and etc. And so riding gets put on the back burner, over and over.

This is our first APHA show- oh, and it's the first show where I'll show Sienna in a riding class. I should be panicked, right? I probably would be, if it weren't for a ride we had a week or two ago. It was our first ride since all of my health issues. I saddled up and hopped on without longing, expecting to just have to sit back and hope for the best. And guess what? Sienna obliged me with everything I asked. We had to work a little bit on our canter departure, but she even seemed to remember that after a few rounds. We cantered all over the property, around hair pin curves, across straight-aways, through obstacle courses- and she never broke stride unless I asked her to. I was completely dumbfounded. It was such a good ride- is someone riding my horse during the day when I'm not home?

I know that it could have been a fluke, and we definitely need to practice like crazy before this show. But it actually gave me a small pang of pride- my girl is growing up and remembering how to behave. Maybe as she matures we will quarrel less and less. Maybe next time I pop on her, she'll throw me in a mad display of bucking. At least she has proven herself to be quiet and obedient at the different show grounds she has been to!

"What judge will hate me?"

Friday, September 13, 2013

Season of travel!

If you know me, you know how much I LOVE to travel- especially if it's to somewhere new. And guess what?! Starting this month, I have four trips planned through November!

First up, I'm heading to Galveston for an overnight stay with my bffs Patricia and Kaitlin for Patricia's birthday! Yay for food, beach, pleasure pier, and possibly a ghost hunting tour (lol).
 

The following weekend, I head to San Antonio for the Southwest Veterinary Symposium with my boss. I haven't really been to San Antonio since I was in high school, minus going to see a concert in college (which I don't really count because all I remember is getting lost). We're staying on the riverwalk, so besides working part of the day at the conference, I'll get to explore!
 


In November, I'm attending an APHA show in Waco with Sienna and some horsey friends. I'm sticking to this one like glue, since the more convenient Bryan show didn't work out thanks to my surgery. Better start working out now in preparation for breeches.



And then right after the show, I drive home to Houston and fly out the next day to NEW YORK CITY!! Ahhhh I can't wait! I've never been to the northeast, so I expect it to be a huge culture shock- especially being in THE city (or so I've heard).



I expect it to be just like Friends and Seinfeld. I'm staying with a friend, so I get to save a lot of money, and I get the like "insider's scoop" on things to do/how to get places. I'm for sure seeing Phantom on Broadway (and possibly more excited about that than anything else). Otherwise, the sky's the limit!

So many things to look forward to- better get back to working on internship/school/work now. Sigh!