Tuesday, November 26, 2013

It's the most wonderful time of the year... almost!

If I've harped on anything this year, it's how busy this semester has been. Taking 9 hours of classes, 3 hours of internship, working full time, and owning 3 horses is enough to stretch anyone's days... but, I've never been one to do things the easy way, so to top it off, I thought I might as well go for the gold and get a boyfriend too.

It's funny how things like that work out.

We've been dating for almost 2 months now. He lives in Dallas, which unfortunately makes this a long distance relationship, but he has been really good about staying in touch with me. We talk every night, we text off and on during the day, and he has driven down many a weekend to hang out with me. I finally get to reciprocate in a few weeks when I go up to Dallas for his office's Christmas party. It's just so much harder to travel when you have 2 dogs, 1 cat, and, of course, those horses, especially when you and your roommate are the sole care takers for the horses. If I could board them, traveling more would be a breeze!

He has no pets, but he likes my guys- and the inside three at least seem to feel the same way about him. Fiona would not stop licking him, Romeo loves everyone, and Ramses jumped into his lap- only to walk across him and climb into my lap and lie down, thereby sending the message that I already had a man in my life. So maybe the jury's out on Ramses. Chica was her usual unimpressed self, and Rosa was still so new when he visited that she didn't care what was going on as long as she got to eat.

So life is hectic right now, but I'm trying to not miss out on my favorite time of the year. In two weeks I should be done with classes, so I'm looking forward to that (minus the 2 research papers lying between me and the end). And then Christmas time! One and a half weeks off! Time for riding and relaxing and reading, my favorite r-words!

Come on, motivation. Just have to get through these next couple of weeks... how about a couple of dog pics to get through?

Pup pup likes to snuggle

"Better than the queen's corgis" according to a native Briton

All about comfort

Meanwhile... at the office...

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

My Heart Belongs To...?

While it is true that my heart will always and forever belong to Chica, there have been many other horses that can claim ownership to bits and pieces of it. One of those I randomly had a dream about last night. His name was Reyolena, and he was the colt I trained for an undergrad colt training class.

First week with Reyolena

While I wasn't overly excited about the bay gelding when I first saw him, he turned out to be the best horse for me in the class. He was smart, he wasn't overly babyish/flighty, and he was a really good ride. I'd say he and the filly that my TA rode turned out to be the best in the class- and I don't say that out of vanity or out of some mistaken belief that I was the best trainer. He was just so intelligent and easy to work with that it made my job easy.

From longing him, to driving him, to finally getting on and riding- with only a little bucking to start off with- I learned so much that I have since used when breaking other horses. He was a great teacher.

Longing

 A few of my "favorite" moments with Reyolena:

*that day it was storming and we got all 15-20 of us out in the covered arena, longing our 2 year old horses, while it thundered loudly (every time it thundered, Reyolena would gallop around me faster and faster, neighing to the other horses)

*the time we were loping along and he tripped, falling down onto his front end with his nose in the dirt and almost sending me flying off over his head. I consciously thought "If I fall off now and land in the dirt, I'm going to be filthy for work since I don't have time to go home and shower" and decided then and there that I was staying on, leaned back with all of my might, and hauled up on his face, righting him back on his feet.

*the time one guy's horse, Cooder, got loose in the arena and took off running for a cluster of horses and kids, only to turn at the last minute and come straight at Reyolena and I. I was standing next to Reyolena when Cooder hit him, knocking Reyolena into me and tossing me to the ground, which caused me to lose my hold on Reyolena. He took off and ran with the other horse until we could catch them. My TA came up and accusingly asked me what I had done, because he was an idiot.

Some of my actual favorite things about Reyolena:

*getting to work with him during holiday breaks, just to spend more time with him

*how much he loved the way my hair smelled and would always bury his nose against my head

*teaching him to drink out of a water fountain

*the bond he and I shared, even though I tried SO HARD not to get attached to him

Obsessed with my hair

Yep. In the end, I tried so hard to figure out how I could afford to buy him and keep two horses. There was no way at the time, and in the end I had to tell him goodbye and hope for the best for his future. I have no idea what happened to him, and my dream was a reflection of that- in it, I stumbled upon him and was happy to see he was still around. That's the hardest thing about training horses, to me. Some come along and you work with them and send them on their way, happy for the experience (and even happier to see them go). Some, however, make their way into your heart, in spite of your best efforts to keep them at arm's length. I'm looking at you, Reyolena, Chico, Annie, Ernie, Cherry, Topper, and Remington.

Monday, November 11, 2013

A week in the Big Apple

After several years of planning (and having plans fall through), I finally got to travel up to New York City last week. It was a blast! And I have never been so exhausted from walking around.

All of my pictures are on my phone, meaning that I have no idea if or when I'll upload them to a computer. But here are a few to start with!

Monday I arrived and used the UBER private car service, which I highly recommend, to get to Jess' house in Brooklyn from LaGuardia. Shortly after I arrived and dropped off my bags, Patricia, Grace and I went into Manhattan to see the 9/11 memorial, which is incredible and very moving. Afterwards, we walked around a little while, waiting on Jess to get off work so we could meet up with her for dinner (at the BEST Italian restaurant I've ever been to, Pepe Giallo). We stumbled upon these lighted trees across from the memorial:


Tuesday, we took the subway back into Manhattan with Jess on her way to work, stopped and ate delicious NYC bagels with way too much (aka a perfect amount) of cream cheese, and then headed into Central Park. The leaves are changing right now, which means that CP is absolutely gorgeous and definitely my favorite place in the whole city. It is such a nice change of pace from the GO GO GO feel of NYC. Definitely more my speed.


We went to the Rockefeller Center afterwards to go ice skating, which was a lesson in humility. I never actually fell, but there were a couple of close calls. Also I realized that I'm not my teenage self anymore that can skate for hours and never want to stop. There was a lot of stopping. And groaning. And clutching my leg that insisted on bending at an awkward angle every time I went around a curve.



After ice skating, we walked around the area for a while, checking out the New York Public Library and Grand Central Station, both of which are beautiful buildings. Later, after an unexpected subway ride to 125th street (almost into the Bronx) where we learned the difference between an express and a local train, we met up with my friend Molly, who attends school in Manhattan, and her dog Murphy. It's funny how many people stop and ask someone who has a dog for directions. Afterwards, Patricia, Jess and I met up at the Russian Vodka Room for martinis, which, let's just say, made friends out of everyone in the bar.

Wednesday, we went back to the bagel place near Jess' work, then went to check out the Empire State building. We went all the way to the top, where we peered over the city like forgotten birds, a trip that was expedited by Jess' landlord working in the building and offering to get us a) discounted tickets and b) to the front of the line.



After the ESB, we went to the Macy's on 5th avenue for lunch, then made our way to Broadway for what I was most excited about: The Phantom of the Opera. It was SO wonderful and so worth the money. I loved it so much that I would have stayed for the next showing if I could have. It was definitely a dream come true and the best part of the whole trip, in my opinion.

After Phantom, we walked through Times Square, a place that you won't really believe until you're there- the screens were so bright that it was like day- just for the experience. There were people trying to get into the Guinness Book of World Records, there were people constantly hassling us about a comedy club, and we saw Batman and Spiderman walk by. We then made our way back to Jess' work so that we could get dinner somewhere before going to a local bar to hear her friend sing during open mic night.

The restaurant we ended up at, Trattoria Spaghetto, was awesome. We had been standing outside, reading the menu, when the owner came out, trying to get us to come in. We hedged, because we weren't sure how much time we had to eat, but we finally decided to go in, and he treated us like royalty. He kept our glasses full at all times, brought us an appetizer on the house, helped me with my coat, and brought us after dinner drinks again on the house, all while speaking with his delightful Italian accent. He definitely earned my business again if I'm ever back over there.

Thursday, my final day, we headed to the Staten Island ferry to see the statue of liberty. It was cold on the boat, but it was nice to be able to sit down. We passed fairly close to the statue and were able to get lots of pictures. While waiting on Staten Island for the return ferry, we met a woman who had been on the same ferry the day the planes hit the twin towers. She told us all about her perspective, and I really enjoyed listening to her. She, like the majority of the people I met while in NYC, was very kind and excited for our trip to the city and had lots of suggestions for things to do. Based on my own experience I don't know where the "rude New Yorkers" stereotype comes from- certainly most people are in a hurry there and might be brusque, but to this Texan, they were perfectly civil. One lady even went out of her way to help us when she overheard us wondering where something was.

Like I said in opening, I was so exhausted from my vacation- NYC walking is quite different than regular walking! By the end of the second day my feet hurt so badly that I would have paid someone to let me just sit down on the street. And the constant climbing/descending the subway stairs took a huge toll on my knee so that I was limping (in a quick fashion) everywhere. But I powered through, and I'm glad for the experiences I had. The city is a cool place, although not somewhere I could ever live!

Oh, and I had a run-in with the NYPD while there, too. In the subway station you sometimes encounter these horrible, counter-intuitive turnstiles that are the worst things in the history of subway stations. Upon entering a subway station and seeing only these turnstiles and no other option to go to instead, I walked up to one, scanned my MetroCard, and tried to walk in- only to have it not open. I tried in vain, with other people trying to help me, but my time expired and it didn't let me go. I went to scan my card again and it said "Just used", a stupid feature of the cards that requires you to wait 15 minutes before swiping your card again. Patricia, who had gotten through successfully, turned and opened the emergency door for me. Two cops stopped us before we got too far. One said to me, "Um, excuse me, is there a reason you went through the emergency exit instead of through the turnstile?" to which I happily responded, yes, there is. He told me that I "should have gone around to the other side of the station, even though it would have been out of my way". I responded that I was not a local and that I was from Texas so I didn't know, and his demeanor immediately became much more friendly. He and his friend then stood there and talked to me about Texas and Texas tv shows for 10 minutes before letting me go and telling me to "be careful out there". I guess it just proves that you can catch more flies with honey than vinegar.